In order to design the life you desire, You must be fully commited to moving out of your comfort zone and your own way, being honest with yourself and having the willingness to be vulnerable is key. I guarantee you if your not open to doing any of this, then it's best to think of why you want to take back control over your life. When you're ready you will know. The first step that I recommend is creating a guideline. The GPS (Get Proaction Started) is the vehicle approach to getting started. For more information contact me in the contact section.